you cannot unhave a child. And that’s why the way we talk about people who choose to be child free is so off because if anything, they’re some of the few people who have actually sat with the full weight of that decision. Not just “do I like kids” or “will it work out” but “
I did this last year, it worked till I joined a high performance gym. The amount of money I spent on training and gym gear last year is crazy. It was worth it but I’ve just got to be smarter this year. So I’ve decided to get a boyfriend.