I wanna sit across the table with some Bad, Fun & Confident Woman and take photos of each other and clap at every accomplishment from finally seeking therapy to a new job/career …
#gfgoals#codesis
𝑴𝒐𝒎𝒔..Make time for your mental health,your energy, your peace. It’s important! Take advantage of alone time.Time away from the kids,family, significant other is needed. I sometimes take the long way home from the market. Taking a walk or taking a day off work/school helps.
If you can’t handle honesty, Expect more silence cuz I’m either quiet or keepin it 💯… It’s not about toning Me down or not being myself, It’s about Peace and Conservation. ✌︎︎
It’s takes me 1 time to be vulnerable or honest with you to know if I’ll do it again. Our mindset’s different & it’s fine. I no longer take offense to the anger, the shade, or dismissive energy I get when I choose to be Honest. I embrace Growth, so I respect your journey. But…
We gotta remember what we doing it for and what we’re capable of. I know it can be hard creating or sticking to a plan. It’s ok to take a moment and pause or start again. Just don’t stop! Let’s keep moving forward Sis, I’m going through it with you ! 🥰
…Happy Sunday ✌︎︎
We play so many roles in our daily lives that we sometimes forget to show love to the people who are important to us.
Today and everyday ..
“I love you”
“I miss you”
“I’m thinking of you”
“I still care”
“I’m proud of you”
“I’m thankful for you”
Happy Valentines Day❤️
Most times, it’s not about trends… It’s about Confidence… Trends fade, But Confidence… That self aware, self love, and self care Confidence… Sis, that’s timeless ❤️✌︎︎
What’s attractive is that you can look inside yourself…
You admire the physical but what’s intriguing to me is your awareness ❤︎
Your mental, intellect, and your being is Beautiful
Keep Growing.
I realized that we get so upset when we aren’t invited, especially separately. We have this need of wanting to be wanted. If only we knew the Power we have. The power to choose what We want, and not waiting around on the invitation of reassurance.
-codesis
Both parties are equally important, both sides should be heard & both have the right to express. I no longer have the time for halfway communication. You shouldn’t either! You deserve to be Heard,yes, but give Respect to the person that’s giving you their time. Listen!
-CodeSis
Every conversation is not about you. Everyone is not going to understand or agree with you. We’d be so focused ONLY on our perception that we forget the Goal! The goal is to come to an understanding, to compromise, establish an agreement, or even a disagreement.
We really be letting our emotions & pride fuck up effective communication with each other. The problem is that some of us think Communication is a one way transaction. We’d go into it defensively and even play victim, esp. when we don’t get the response or reaction we want.