If youโre mad about Penn Badgley politely asking his showrunner to limit his sex scenes because of personal boundaries he wanted to maintain for his own personal relationship, youโre weird.
Matty Healy from the 1975 should not be getting as much backlash for checking someoneโs ID before kissing them on stage. People lie about their ages, he had her consent and just to be cautious {teens are looking more and more like young adults nowadays} checked her ID to be safe.