"A sickness known as hate. Not a virus, not a microbe, not a germ — but a sickness nonetheless, highly contagious, deadly in its effects. Don't look for it in the Twilight Zone — look for it in a mirror. Look for it before the light goes out altogether."
Rod Serling
“Nothing in nature lives for itself.
Rivers don't drink their own water.
Trees don't eat their own fruit.
Sun doesn't give heat for itself.
Flowers don't spread fragrance for themselves.
Living for others is the rule of nature. And therein lies the secret of living.”
The Arrival Fallacy is when we focus on the horizon hoping that someday we will get “there” and be happy
… but Gertrude Stein had it right when she said “There is no ‘there’ there”
When we place our happiness in “Once I..” or “Someday..” an Arrival Fallacy is not far away
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