A 95-YEAR-OLD MAN WHO SLEPT WITH OVER 300 WOMEN TOLD ME THIS ON HIS DEATHBED:
"Son, the biggest lie men believe is that women have no options."
Then he revealed 5 dark truths about female nature most men learn too late.
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1. WOMEN DON'T LACK OPTIONS. THEY MANAGE THEM.
While you're celebrating her reply...
Another man is texting her.
Another is calling.
Another wants to take her out.
Never mistake her attention for a lack of options.
2. MEN CHASE ATTENTION. WOMEN FILTER IT.
Many men struggle to get noticed.
Many women struggle to choose whom to notice.
Your mistake?
Thinking you're the only man pursuing her.
Competition often happens silently.
3. WOMEN DON'T STRUGGLE TO FIND MEN.
They struggle to find men they genuinely respect.
Chasing harder won't make you special.
Confidence, ambition, and self-respect will make you stand out.
4. MEN PURSUE. WOMEN CHOOSE.
While men try to impress, women observe.
Who's desperate?
Who's confident?
Who's trying too hard?
The man who doesn't beg for attention often stands out.
5. THE DATING GAME REWARDS VALUE, NOT FAIRNESS.
Some women attract attention easily.
Many men must work harder to get noticed.
Complaining changes nothing.
Improve your appearance.
Build your finances.
Develop confidence.
Create your own options.
THE OLD MAN'S FINAL WORDS:
"Son, the moment you stop believing women owe you attention is the moment you understand the game."
THE LESSON:
Stop chasing validation.
Stop putting women on pedestals.
Build yourself into a man with standards, purpose, and options.
A man who knows his worth doesn't beg to be chosen.
Someone asking why only people bordering Somalia are the only one subjected to vetting when collecting IDs ,na Tanzania...
Tumuulize kama Tanzania kuna Alshabab?
Someone asking why only people bordering Somalia are the only one subjected to vetting when collecting IDs ,na Tanzania...
Tumuulize kama Tanzania kuna Alshabab?
Immediately after getting employed, don't rush to execute a mega project.
Whatever you're paid may look a lot, but that's because you had "nothing" before.
Take time to learn about investments. Start saving in a SACCO and MMF.
You'll earn interests. Explore side hustles, if they don't work, invest in successful businesses eg. dividend stocks (local or offshore), lend to the government (treasury bills and bonds) for interests.
While young, you can do everything to find your groove. When you eventually discover what works, you have a decade of compounding power.
With 2 or 3 other income sources, you can execute your capital projects.
Happy birthday to the love of my life, @MichelleObama. You fill every room with warmth, wisdom, humor, and grace – and you look good doing it. I’m so lucky to be able to take on life's adventures with you. Love you!
He died smiling. He died wishing for better governance in his country. He died wearing a flag of his Country, Rest easy comrade. To us you are a hero 🕊. Repost Widely Africans
@mundu_useful A very misguided opinion how do you say we need water and not building roads,
The two are synergitic and for a country to be developed the two sectors should very much explored!
There is a trend of people always shoving down youths throats the idea of be an entrepreneur and be your own Boss.
Most of these guys push this narrative from the comfort of their offices where they are employees of big government entities or private firms, if they lost employment today those fellas wouldn’t last 3 months in the tough city of Nairobi but from a privileged point of view they will always see a youth seeking employment as a failure and uncreative.
In my opinion this is wrong, few truths they aren’t communicating to the youths is that:
1. We cannot all be entrepreneurs.
2. Kenya has a very low buying power to sustain all of us in entrepreneurship and business sphere.
3. Kenya’s business model of operation is kickbacks based on who knows who somewhere, its why every crook with a record of thievery and economic murder calls themselves flamboyant businessmen.
4. A youth with a honest business idea is likely to die with his idea rather than being supported with it, instead, the bigwigs will ask for their fair share or kaende sana, its why you have seen people like Kasarani MP Ronald Karauri and Nakuru senator Tabith Karanja joining politics, it’s not to serve you but to serve and protect their threatened legal businesses from predators, courtesy of power and political influence.
My parting shot is that those talking from a privileged point of view should stop 🛑 ✋🏿 pushing and blaming youths for being lazy and uncreative, some of them work 10x harder than them, its just that the game is rigged 101. Provide a fair play ground (which remains a myth) and see the results.
@kimaiyo@beth_kasinga@Makiadi_
I REFUSE to view this photo negatively in relation to President Ruto appointments . I REFUSE to see tribalism in it. If you are rising, RISE with friends, RISE with your family, RISE with those who stayed, GROW , with anyone who held your hand when you were drowning
Maturity is about patience and avoiding a victim mindset.
People who are mature take extreme ownership of their situations and put in the work to be successful.
But they don't expect things to materialize right away. They give it time.