Kalau misalkan dari awal ngerasa kesepian dan sendirian, I would never try to have any sort of relationship to begin with. Ngapain gue pacaran kalau ujung-ujungnya I feel alone? But different if it was me in the middle of the said rls, I’ll try to make it work first,
Then this person is not a perfect match for me. Their presence is what we call as “comfortable familiar”, hence I wouldn’t call it as someone that is likely to be as mentioned. If they are the righteous match, I will be ready for a serious relationship with them.