Kjarsten Pedersen

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Apple has landed the rights to turn ‘MISTBORN’ into a film franchise & ‘THE STORMLIGHT ARCHIVE’ into a TV series.

Brandon Sanderson will write, produce and consult on all projects.

(Source: https://t.co/Ka6RvxmT3S)

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@Neo_vagabond @movie_tvshows_ @grok YouTube series called Dana and the Wolf

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@CS11__ Fun little cinematography tidbit, the ending with Neil Perry the camera is tilted to show how off balance Dexter feels, but when Neil isn’t the ITK, it rights itself because Dexter knows all is right in the world.

[Julian Bass @thejulianbass]

if y’all can retweet this enough times that Disney calls, that’d be greatly appreciated

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@Angels Any rehab games in SLC?

[Pastor Kyle. @itsqail]

All these new headlights are TOO fucking bright

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@samsgleek @AcheronApex

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@IsethryI @DBPerfectShots So awesome that he was able to
Collaborate and adapt the song for them!

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@UUtah_Esports @crimsongamingut any league finals watch parties planned?

[Aly Dee @realfemsapien]

So, back to this guy.

Listen, most men are not prepared for the first postpartum period experience they have with their wives.

They just don't get it.

Ladies, I will tell you now that if you're going to be a first-time mom, your husband will more than likely disappoint you at the beginning.

It is a very common situation to find yourself in, to the point that books are sold on "How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids." Some of that sentiment is misandrist for sure, but some of it can be legitimate growing pains women are experiencing.

Let me explain.

An inexperienced father is not a bad man. I do not think they can understand what postpartum is for a woman for a multitude of reasons: they aren't women and our ancestral past did not involve men in the postpartum care of women.

It's a breakdown in our society that puts the care of a postpartum woman directly in the hands of her husband. She should be cared for by OTHER WOMEN. But we don't have access to that today. What saddens me the most is that there are women whose husbands work long hours out of necessity and are incapacitated in a room with their baby, alone postpartum for 12-16 hours a day or more...

A husband does not know the physical pain his wife is in. He can theorize it but will never experience it and, therefore, won't grasp it fully. He also has some distance from the baby by not carrying it himself. A newborn is a potato a man would kill enemies for, but again... to them, it's just a lovable potato. There's not much going on with a newborn outside of them wanting their mom.

The postpartum phase is jarring for most men, and they haven't figured out how to confide in or talk to other men about it for tips or pointers. Hence, this guy posting something publicly that got him so thoroughly berated he deleted his account, which sucks. It sounds like he needs some genuine male mentorship and was expressing sincere frustration.

This is why I think it is so common for couples to separate after the birth of a child. It can be a great insult for a woman to be at her most vulnerable and her husband just doesn't get it.

It's frustrating for the woman in the situation because she's tired, hurting, and bleeding. She's too tired to think straight enough to tell her husband what she needs; most of the time, it's just sleep, food, and a shower. But she can't even say it. She's trapped in her body. That's the level of exhaustion we're talking about here.

We need to give men more grace for their first child. Most men seem to get it by the second kid and are much more prepared. While a woman is becoming a mother for the first time, he is becoming a father for the first time. There is a learning curve.

As for the sex thing, listen, men have 17-75x the testosterone women do. Testosterone is responsible for sexual impulsivity. The younger he is, the more he'll want it. So, don't be surprised if he's asking for some at an inopportune time. You can politely decline without ripping his head off.

I don't think he was being inconsiderate moreso than being a young, horny new dad. Which, is kind of cute if you think about it, haha. He still has the hots for his wife even after she JUST had a baby. Inconvenient for her, but it can be perceived positively if you take another perspective.

Bottomline: Men and women need more mentorship as new parents.

[We Rave You @weraveyou]

.@Zedd debut album 'Clarity' has turned 12 years old 🥹

[S.L. Kanthan @Kanthan2030]

China just cured Type 1 diabetes with stem cells!

Within 75 days, the patient had normal glucose level; and has maintained that for a year now.

Groundbreaking medical accomplishment! And the surgery takes only half an hour!

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@kilomatts_ It’s the worst on Shayne guesses, before every reveal I was getting an ad.

[Panic! At The TL @Puff_Iya]

My issue with these videos is the same issue I have with our current election. These people have clearly done hours of research and preparation to argue FACT just to sit there an argue with someone who got all their info from a Facebook infographic

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[Dave Wiskus @dwiskus]

Timing.

[James Jones @jamesjonesesq]

Yall please RT any and all posts you see of Frederick Richard. Even though Frederick scored the highest score for team USA, major news outlets are trying to erase him by saying that some other gymnast who only did one event led the team to win a medal.

[Claudius @xclaudius]

No Father’s Day is complete without this video.

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