The silence after you have accepted something you never wanted to accept is different. It’s not weakness. It’s not defeat. It’s the sound of your soul finally stopping the argument with reality. You don’t explain as much. You don’t fight as much.
Life is already hard 💔 please choose someone who chooses you, not just in words, but in actions. Someone who's there for you, stays consistent, and makes you feel wanted, not just when they feel like it, but every day. ❤
Manipulation is when they always play the victim by blaming you for your reaction to their toxic behaviour but will never discuss their disrespct that triggered you..Respect first
Going numb on someone feels so good. When you��re numb to them you just don’t care. If they’re in your life, cool. If they’re not, also cool. But there’s NO desire nor hate for them at all. Truly at peace with it.
I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.