Komal Moatter

PhD Scholar | Dreamer |
Lecturer | Writer

[آزاد خیال @azad1_khayal]

ہم اپنی بیٹیوں کو پڑھاتے ہیں اپنے پاؤں پر کھڑا کرتے ہیں انہیں بااختیار اور خودمختار بنانے کی کوشش کرتے ہیں۔ اگر ایک تعلیم یافتہ کمانے والی عورت بھی اپنے ہی شوہر کے ہاتھوں محفوظ نہیں تو سوال صرف اس کی خودمختاری کا نہیں پورے معاشرتی نظام کا ہے۔

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

@dearr_diaryy__ That's when you need to run girlllll and I did it. God was so kind to me but you are right most women don't even realize it. Even I was told to give it some time and think again but I knew there's no hope in abusive relationships.

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

There would be a few women who can get away at the start of the abuse, the rest would wait for the man and his family to change and would lose life eventually. ABUSERS NEVER CHANGE. LEAVE AS EARLY AS YOU CAN.

[minahil😴 @dearr_diaryy__]

If you've never been in an abusive relationship, Don't say how you would never allow that to happen to you. Because all of those women who have been in abusive relationships including me, We all thought that too.
Bothering part is that

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

@FahadChishte And trust me, there are men who would tell the world that they don't want to leave you but would treat you so badly that you would be left with no other option as to leave or get killed.

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

@FahadChishte I believe men want to project some sort of entitlement when they abuse the girl, be it physical or emotional. The psuedo sense of entitlement that I am the man and I can get away with anything but as a woman it's her obligation to obey that psycho.

[Vikrant Gupta @vikrantgupta73]

BREAKING NEWS: 22 Former international cricket captains have once again written a letter to Pakistan PM over the treatment for Imran Khan. They first wrote a similar letter in February and this one comes after Pak allegedly didn’t completely comply with SC directions.
They have laid down 3 demands:
1. That the medical board directed by the Supreme Court — including Mr Khan's own doctors — be permitted to complete a full and independent assessment of his health, particularly the reported loss of vision in his right eye.
2. That the weekly family visits reinstated by the Court be honoured without interruption or administrative delay.
3. That whatever the outcome of that medical assessment, the treatment recommended by it be provided without delay.

Three Indians - Kapil Dev, Sunil Gavaskar and Dilip Vengsarkar are among the 22 former captains.
#ImranKhan

[Nazrana Yousufzai @Nazranausufzai]

Normalize not asking, “Why did he kill her?” when a woman is murdered by her husband, father, or brother. The question should be: Why did he think he had the right to kill her?

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

@UsamaKhilji Petty minds tend to question the victim instead of calling out the culprit. The dilemma of our society

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

@Hanii_tales I remember a psycho man saying ek aadh hath to banda lga hi deta hai biwi ko.... Imagine the level of normalization of abuse in that household.

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

@MaleehaHashmey Shabashhhhhhhhh

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

@siasatpk Zulm k khilaaf awaz na uthana bhi koi munaasib bat nahi hai

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

@MinhalRao Even when a woman is not financially independent, she must not be forced to suffer in a abusive marriage.

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

@dearest_athena @FahadChishte Yessssssss

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

@FahadChishte I took myself out of that hell at the few 1st instances of abuse but trust me not all women can choose for themselves and not all parents support their daughters the way my parents did. Ghar bachana is imp for them than beti bachana, sadly.

[Komal Moatter @KomalMoatter]

Couldn't agree more. Abusive relationship needs to be ended at 1st instance of abuse instead of waiting for them to act right and ending up losing your life at the hands of ill-mannered, filthy and psychopath people.

[Javeria Siddique @javerias]

یاد رکھیں abusive relationship میں پہلے طعنے طنز آتے ہیں پھر غصہ گالی گلوچ پھر پابندیاں پھر مار پیٹ اور نتیجہ قتل نکلتا ہے۔ ایسے لوگ کبھی ٹھیک نہیں ہوتے۔ خواتین اور انکے اہل خانہ پہلے ہی تھپڑ کو روک دیں ورنہ انجام بہت بھیانک نکلتا ہے۔

[Saadia Ahmed @khwamkhwah]

A divorced daughter is better than a dead daughter.

[Abdullah @michaelscottfc]

Syed Muzammil Shah keh raha hai ghalti Imran Khan ki hai kyun nahi deal karta aur bahir aa jata teen saal se jail mein para hua hai.

This is peak intellectualism.

[فریحہ ✪ @fay_alif]

I hope now you all male voilence apologists know why women in womens groups advice other women to leave abusive men.

[Maria Malik @maria_malikawan]

Another woman. Another murder. Another future and set of dreams ruined. Another case of abuse. Another hashtag. Another person who ll disappear in the long list of people who have been abused. Yet people like #ZahirJaffar are still alive and filing review petitions. #HinaJaved #Rawalpindi #NoorMukadam