You meet a girl and you people start chatting and suddenly she doesn’t respond to your last message.
Comes back several days later when she sees you did not take the bait with “Heyyyy”.
All the while I was just out here watching Messi and bantering Wasiu.
Have become too old for these foolish games.
Limerence is an involuntary, intense state of romantic obsession and infatuation characterized by intrusive thoughts, idealization of the person, and an agonizing need for your feelings to be reciprocate
I love intimate talks with 1-2 other people. But I've disliked almost every conversation I've ever had when the group is bigger than 3.
Is anyone else like this? How do you manage at things like conferences and vibecamp?
Perfected this strat in the mid to late 2010s lol………. anyway it doesn’t work (you just feel it later, and the entire time you’re delaying, you feel emotionally like when you know you’re gonna vomit but your body isn’t ready to puke yet)
Limerence is an involuntary, intense state of romantic obsession and infatuation characterized by intrusive thoughts, idealization of the person, and an agonizing need for your feelings to be reciprocate
Me expressing love: “Hey you should make plans to hang out with your other friends, too!”
(Because it is not healthy to be emotionally dependent on just one friend, whether wholly or just mostly; I don’t want that much power, and I shouldn’t have it even if I did want it)