Nivardus

Researcher of Reincarnation✨
Analytical Psychologist🔬
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Knight of the Golden Fleece🎖️
Third Prince of Hornes🇳🇱
King of the Belgians🇧🇪
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Private Account.

[Nivardus @KoningRidder]

We want to once again clarify that our accounts are private. The intention of this account is to educate ourself while providing unconscious stimuli material. This is where we study, perform research, conduct experiments, explore our depths, and write our innermost thoughts down.

[Academy of Ideas @academyofideas]

Dark Psychology - The Hidden Motives of Social Life

[Beyond the Mask @NarcKilling]

A narcissist may chase status because status attracts attention without requiring authenticity

[Carl Jung Archive @QuoteJung]

"The meeting with oneself is, at first, the meeting with one's own shadow."

- Carl Jung

[ً @artfuIchaos]

some people dislike you because you’re exactly who you say you are. while they’re busy deciding which mask to wear today.

[Native Red Cloud🪶Maȟpíya Lúta~Hińhan Wakangli⚡️🦉 @Native3rd]

“I survived because the fire that burned inside of me burned brighter than the fire around me.”

~ Unknwn,

[Béa Gonzalez (sophiacycles) @SophiaCycles]

Everyone who becomes conscious of even a fraction of his unconscious gets outside his own time and social stratum into a kind of solitude.~CG Jung, 𝘔𝘺𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘶𝘮 𝘊𝘰𝘯𝘪𝘶𝘯𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘪𝘴

[Beyond the Mask @NarcKilling]

For a narcissist, every relationship is a transaction.

If you stop providing supply, they discard you not because you did anything wrong, but because they've lost what they wanted from you.

When they give you respect, affection, or even your basic rights, it's often not because you deserve them. It's because you're still providing value to them.

Once the supply ends, so do the rewards

[Words & Wisdom @WordsnWisdom26]

"An intelligent man is forced to be drunk to spend time with his fools."

— Ernest Hemingway

[Carl Jung Archive @QuoteJung]

We cannot change anything unless we accept it. Condemnation does not liberate, it oppresses.

[Beyond the Mask @NarcKilling]

There’s one question that changes the way you understand the entire relationship:

Why does a narcissist believe they have the right to ignore you, yet become furious when you ignore them?

The answer reveals more about narcissism than almost anything else.

A narcissist does not believe in equality within a relationship. In their mind, one person sets the rules, and the other follows them. That’s why they believe they have the right to disappear, neglect you, delay responding, and return whenever they choose. But the moment you do the same, they feel as though you’ve broken the system they depend on.

To them, being ignored isn’t simply an unanswered message. It’s a clear signal that they no longer control you the way they once did—and that threatens the image they have of themselves.

When you stop chasing them and refuse to give the emotional reaction they’re expecting, they begin to feel their influence slipping away. That’s when the anger, frustration, accusations, and attempts to regain control begin.

So don’t be fooled when they explode over something that seems insignificant. They’re rarely reacting to the event itself. They’re reacting to what it represents:

Your growing independence.

Your stronger boundaries.

Your refusal to be manipulated.

Healing from narcissistic abuse doesn’t begin when the narcissist changes.

It begins when your emotional reactions are no longer under their control.

That’s the moment the toxic relationship starts to lose its power—and you begin to reclaim yours.

[Beyond the Mask @NarcKilling]

A narcissist doesn't see a relationship the way you do. You seek love, trust, and connection.

They often seek influence, validation, and control. That's why they test your reactions through silence, distance, provocation, or conflict. The goal isn't to resolve problems; it's to measure how much power they still have over your emotions.

When you stop chasing, stop explaining, and stop reacting emotionally, their strategy begins to fail.

What hurts them most isn't losing the relationship it's losing the control they once had over you.

[Beyond the Mask @NarcKilling]

The moment you decide to walk away from a narcissist, you’ll realize that the hardest part wasn’t making the decision—it was facing their reaction.

Many people believe that ending a toxic relationship marks the end of the battle. In reality, the real battle often begins with the first step you take away.

A narcissist does not see the relationship the way you do. To them, you are not a partner, a friend, or a family member. You are a source of control—a place where they gain power and validation.

That is why they feel threatened the moment you begin rebuilding your emotional boundaries. Suddenly, the person they believed they controlled is making independent decisions and regaining confidence. That’s when their real anxiety begins.

They may try to pull you back with affection, guilt, anger, silent treatment, or by damaging your reputation. Not because you’re irreplaceable, but because losing control means losing a significant part of the identity they’ve built around themselves.

Don’t mistake these reactions for love. In many toxic relationships, attempts to win you back are driven far more by the desire to regain control than by any genuine desire to repair the relationship.

Every step you take toward healing forces the narcissist to confront a truth they have spent their life avoiding: you do not belong to them, and healthy boundaries and self-respect are stronger than even the most persistent psychological manipulation.

Sometimes, the hardest decision is the one that brings you back to yourself.

[Beyond the Mask @NarcKilling]

The most confusing part of a toxic relationship is that the victim often believes the narcissist is ignoring them because they no longer care.

But the reality is often very different.
In many cases, the silent treatment is the moment a narcissist feels most in control. They know you'll reread old messages, question what you did wrong, and perhaps even apologize for something you never did.

Every minute you spend searching for the reason behind their silence reinforces their sense of power. It tells them they're still occupying your thoughts and influencing your emotions.

That's why they don't use silence because they don't care. They use it because they care deeply about your reaction. They wait for you to reach out, reassure them, and restore their sense of being the most influential person in your life.

The problem is that many victims don't recognize the pattern. They believe they're trying to repair the relationship, when in reality they're feeding the cycle of emotional manipulation all over again.

The moment you understand that the silent treatment is not a sign that love has ended—but a tactic of emotional blackmail and control—you stop chasing answers that were never meant to be given.

Some questions don't need answers. They need you to leave the place that made you ask them in the first place.

[Native Red Cloud🪶Maȟpíya Lúta~Hińhan Wakangli⚡️🦉 @Native3rd]

“…And while I stood there I saw more than I can tell, and I understood more than I saw; for I was seeing in a sacred manner the shapes of things in the spirit, and the shape of all shapes as they must live together like One Being!”

– Black Elk, Oglala Lakota, (1863-1950)

[Béa Gonzalez (sophiacycles) @SophiaCycles]

[W]e need to periodically ask, "What wants to come into the world through me?" This is not an ego-driven, narcissistic question. It is a query which summons us to show up, to serve something larger than the familiar, the comfortable.~James Hollis

[Nivardus @KoningRidder]

Entertaining thought from the Spirit of the Depths:
Gyms are daycares for insecure man-children.

They always have such colorful insight into things.
I got a hearty laugh out of their accurate assessment.

[Thea @TheaEuryphaessa]

On the painful psychospiritual shift from an ego-oriented life to the greater transpersonal adventure.

[Academy of Ideas @academyofideas]

Seneca - "It is the mark of a great mind to rise above insults..."

[Learn Latin @latinedisce]

Alchemical Riddle, Late 17th Century

Mundi fundum si profundum
laborando inveneris,
Crede mihi, habes totum
unde beari poteris.

“If, by labor, you should find
the world’s profoundest depth,
trust me, you possess all
that can bring you happiness.”

[Words & Wisdom @WordsnWisdom26]

"People are like books. Some deceive you with their cover, others surprise you with their content."

— Oscar Wilde