i had brunch in a heavily gentrified neighborhood with my friends in flowy dresses, we talked shit very calmly, made small unnecessary purchases, and i have to be honest with you
i’m starting to understand
I had a realization a few years ago that I don't need to figure out why this person is doing a certain behavior I dislike. All that matters is I know I don't like the behavior and I can leave
ill admit i am intellectually very classist and discard men the moment they say they don’t like to read / are not interested in politics / unable to understand basic economical terms
Do not talk about discernment if you cannot recognise when someone needs compassion more than criticism and correction. There is a time to guide and a time to simply hold space for a person who is hurting. Wisdom knows the difference. And kindness knows it even faster.