If you offer me a sincere apology and change your behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and you're still repeating mistakes, you can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The past is actually the present if you haven't changed.
This GENERATION hides behind "I don't owe anyone anything" to avoid ACCOUNTABILITY. Yes, you do. You owe APOLOGIES to those you hurt. GRATITUDE to those who showed up. RESPECT to those you disrespected. That's not weakness, that's MATURITY.