📌 The moment you tell a Domme how she “should” dominate, you’ve missed the point of dominance.
People love to say:
• “A real Domme should act like this.”
• “A real Domme must do that.”
• “A real Domme has to follow these rules.”
Authentic dominance does not operate according to other people’s expectations.
A real Domme owes you nothing.
She can dress how she wants, speak how she wants and build her dynamic however she chooses. She may dominate for money, or she may not. She may be strict, playful, intellectual, sensual or unpredictable.
She doesn’t need your permission to define how she expresses her authority.
It’s her call. Not yours.