"don't sexualize this character while they're going through a bad time" coldest take of all time nothing is sexier than my fave being miserable and a mess
Been in my office IT job for a while now. It's pretty easy with the occasional stress. I move every positive mail to a 'Keep Going' folder. Whenever I have a great mail, it goes there, and if I have a bad day, I spend a bit of time in that folder reminding myself why I'm there.