My therapist told me, “No one notices your sadness until it turns into anger, and then you’re the problem. Healing is realizing you became the angry person because no one saw your sadness first” and I felt that.
If I'm being honest, half the things I went through are in fact because of me: my lack of discipline, not listening to my gut feelings, and my poor decision-making.
nothing will ruin a friendship for me faster than watching someone show up for their other friends in a way they don’t show up for me. you have the capacity, just not for our friendship? no thanks.
@unlimited_ls I’m friends with one of the girls brother. I and another person took him to the airport to have him fly home back to his family. The pain that man was going through. He spoke highly of his sister and talked about their memories. No one should lose a loved one in this way.
Today the 31st December, don't forget to thank yourself for the nights you cried alone and the mornings you still got up like nothing happened. You're an absolute legend.
While everyone is celebrating a new year, I'll be looking up at the sky with silent tears knowing the real victory was surviving a year no one saw me fight.