@NHendizadeh ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I would like to add that as you assert your “fuck that, I’m just me” confidence - you become the powerful person you’ve always wanted to be
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This misconception is really sad bc it removes you from empathy. If you don’t trust that someone is feeling how they express they’re feeling, you’re recycling the narcissistic behavior used on you - continuing the cycle
I think a lot of people have the misconception that expression of emotion means you’re trying to manipulate someone - and while that is a tactic for narcissistic folks, real expression of emotion is a courageous act of love
Compare the “you should want this” voice with the “but I’m scared” voice. Do they have anything in common? There’s your limiting narrative. You are the author and you can rewrite at any time. ❤️
Tapping into your own intuition can feel tricky when you’ve been walking someone else’s path your whole life.
Start with what you want - if you want it, it’s for you. If you don’t want it - you might be coming up with reasons why you SHOULD want it. Don’t waste your time.
If you want something but it’s surrounded by a feeling of fear…that’s incredible news. Why are you afraid? That’s all information to help you get clear on your desires.
I used to think I had to prove myself - that ended in complete betrayal of myself & my desires. You are the keeper of your energy - don’t gaslight yourself into situations that are not for you.
It’s really right there in front of you. We just have to learn to stop. Slow alllll the way down to a stop. How’s your body feelin? It’s safe to just sit here.
Most times in life we start to feel hard feelings so we keep filling our lives bc that must be what the hard feeling is about right??? I must want more, right??
But the thing is - the continual filling and filling of your life is distracting you. It’s a distraction from crystal clear clarity about what you really desire
Also, try not to judge people right out of the gate. Most of the time, when we see something we don’t like in someone else, it’s because we don’t like that part of ourselves. Love YOU and then let that move outwards. ❤️
Be kind to my friends!!!! Not only those on camera. Try to move with love when interacting with people - even when you can’t see them. That goes for service workers, customer service, and strangers. I promise love & understanding will make your life so much more beautiful. ❤️