The HIV, HPV, AIDS, herps & chlamydia rate is way too damn high to be having hoes, side pieces , and unprotected sex with random people just because you’re “horny “ sex requires TRUST. You’re trusting another individual with your body and essentially your life.
Saw a woman on TikTok say she was a “good girl” her whole life. Did everything the right way. Played by the rules. Put herself last.
She said once she hit 40, all she had left was rage and grief. And whew… that hit.
Because nobody really talks about how being the good girl benefits everyone except the good girl. Family. Jobs. Partners. Friends. Everybody eats off her discipline and silence.
Then one day you look up and realize you followed every rule… and still ended up empty. Tired. Wondering who you would’ve been if you chose yourself sooner.
That realization is heavy. And it comes right on time for a lot of women.