š¹: even if you don't do anything special i'd recommend making time for yourself and doing something you like. go for a run, read a book, cook something for yourself. i think finding time for normal stuff while working hard is good
idgaf how bad your childhood was, youāre a grown man. stop using your trauma as an excuse to traumatize everyone around you. go to fucking therapy or stay single, women are not rehabilitation centers for broken men
A woman can calmly explain ten times that something makes her uncomfortable. Then, on the eleventh time, she snaps. And the man will only remember the eleventh time. For some reason, the first ten donāt make it into the male version of the story.