imagine wanting to “motivate” someone, a loved one at that, but u don’t even take the time to get to know what drives them, what inspires them, you just want the recognition of being the “one that motivated them”
Thug it out, take everything with a grain of salt; be open but not to open that others corrupt your judgment, be kind but not too kind, be aware but aloof. What Steve Harvey said “act like a lady etc.”
yeah cause no matter what you’re damned if you do