Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.
i'm a firm believer that if someone didn't tell you something themselves then they probably don't want you to know & also when someone posts something on their status & they didn’t tell you about it? don't ask, they don't want you to know.🩶😔
Guys can't stress this enough its important ukuba umuntu othembekile especially with small things. Some of you miss big blessings in your lives because ur really just dishonest person.
People who spend long periods of time at home and slowly lose the desire to go outside often think they're just resting. But psychologically, many of them are experiencing something called mental rumination. It's a state where the brain starts slowing down while the number of thoughts inside keeps increasing and the motivation to do anything slowly disappears. The mind gets stuck in the past, worries about the future and burns itself out. This isn't laziness, it's a nervous system stuck in survival mode. And the longer it lasts, the more distant normal life begins to feel. And the difficult part is that you usually can't escape it through one massive burst of motivation. And sometimes,recovery starts with just one small step.
Now I understand why they keep telling women to marry before 25. After 25, you start thinking differently. You stop chasing the wedding and start asking if the marriage itself is even worth it.
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Don’t kill me but-
Telkom has a month to month contract which is 300 a month with 240Gb monthly which goes over to the next month if you didn’t finish it.
Hack? Buy the simcard towards month end so that you have about 400Gb at the start of the month. I’ve had it for over a year. Never ran out of data.