i believe in re-reading and re-watching your favourite books & movies at different stages of your life. the plot never changes, but your perspective does.
If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
You don’t need to be cold. Just inaccessible. Respond slower. Reveal less. Be polite, but unreadable. When people have to guess how you feel, they start treating you like someone they can’t afford to miscalculate. That’s how distance breeds influence.
Many women assume men leave because of another woman. In reality, most men walk away when the peace is gone. Love alone can’t hold a man who lives in constant conflict and disrespect.
Y’all will literally drain the niceness outta a person… and then act shocked when they stop being sweet. Ain’t nobody born mean… people get worn down, disrespected, and pushed there.