y’all know what eats me the fuck up? I’ve helped people in their darkest times and it could just be sitting there listening to them bc I know they just wanna be heard, but when I need something ? When I need reassurance? When I need confirmation? they not there.
so far in my 20s, the best lesson I ever learnt was that life will go on. People come and go, we lose friends, break up with lovers, meet new people, encounter success and failure and life will still go on. You will be alright. 🤍
FRIENDSHIPS HURT AND YALL DONT TALK ABOUT THAT …. GIRL WE DID ALL THIS BONDING CREATED ALL THESE MEMORIES, I SHOWED U ALL THIS LOVE FOR U TO TURN INTO A WEIRDO, IT HURTS WHEN YOU THOUGHT THEY WAS YOUR SISTER/BESTFRIEND! SOME OF US REALLY HAVE PTSD FROM FRIENDSHIPS
your partner coming to you about something you’re doing wrong isn’t a personal attack. It’s a sign they value the relationship – it's a heads up. You communicate, you fix it, you stay. That's emotional maturity. That's love.
told myself id never beg for:
-someone to want to make time for me and see me
-loyalty
-affection
-communication
- love
ever again, and here I am, in the same repetitive cycle.
my biggest issue is I will give my all time and time again to people who’d never do the same for me. so from now on I’m just gonna give out what I receive and nothing more. emotionally, mentally, physically, all of it.