Sandra

Moi j’aime lire.
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[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

The baby is only part of the birth. There's another birth that almost nobody talks about. The PLACENTA. For 9 months, your body grows an entirely new organ, an organ with one job keeping your baby alive. It delivers oxygen, nutrients, hormones, filters waste and connects two completely different circulatory systems without ever mixing your blood. Then, minutes after your baby is born that organ detaches from the wall of your uterus, and when it does, it leaves behind a wound roughly the size of a dinner plate. About 10 cm across, that is why you bleed after birth, because your body is healing a wound. At the same time, your uterus, which stretched enough to hold an entire baby, is working around the clock to shrink back down to its pre pregnancy size. Those after pains you're feeling those contractions, they are your uterus, squeezing itself smaller while compressing hundreds of open blood vessels to stop the bleeding. Now imagine this. If you had a wound that size anywhere else, on your body, on your arm, on your leg, your back, would anyone expect you to be back at work in a week? Would anyone expect you you to entertain visitors? Cook meals, carry a baby day and night smile for photos and get your body back, of course not. You'd probably be in the hospital on a drip. People would tell you to rest up. They'd expect weeks of recovery, yet when that exact wound is hidden inside your body, the world acts as though you should be back to normal almost immediately. 6 weeks later, you go for your postpartum, check up. Many women think it's a milestone that says, wow, you've recovered. It isn't. It's simply checking whether the bleeding has stopped, whether the placental wound has healed and whether your uterus is recovering as expected. It is not a certificate that says your body, brain, hormones, identity or even nervous system have all returned to normal. So if you've ever been wondering, why haven't I bounced back yet? Here's the better question why were you ever expected to bounce back from something this enormous in the first place? Your body is recovering from one of the most extraordinary healing processes a human being can experience. Give yourself some time and space to recover.

[ツッコミ待ち案件 @ushijimanvoice]

全てを知り尽くす息子

[PROM’IVOIRE 🇨🇮 @Prom_Ivoire]

Elle a craqué à cause de la pression que lui fait subir sa famille .

[☔ @Whotfismick]

I have officially reached the age where I am bothered by lights being on, doors left opened, loud noises & people

[. @Carlosgramosc]

“2026 será mi año”

Yo, casi a mediados de julio:

[WALKER🪂 @maxl1am]

not to be dramatic, but having to work 5 days a week is ruining my life

[Carla @puarangue]

Quelqu’un peut m’expliquer comment une seule personne est censée réussir à travailler de 9 h à 18 h, faire 10 000 pas par jour, aller à la salle de sport trois fois par semaine, cuisiner des repas faits maison, garder la maison impeccable, passer du temps de qualité avec sa famille, dormir huit heures par nuit, lire des livres, apprendre des langues, avoir des loisirs, prendre soin de sa santé, être séduisante en permanence… et réussir malgré tout à ne pas finir avec un trouble anxieux ?

J’ai l’impression qu’on nous a vendu une image de la vie qui est tout simplement impossible à tenir dans la réalité.

[slay @nemesis09066]

Me, when I use dark humour on the wrong person, now I'm getting lecture on human rights, racism and mental health💔

[‏ً @doudayev]

Je déteste à quel point je m’exprime bien dans ma tête et à quel point je m’exprime mal quand il s’agit de le dire à voix haute

[° @binx7h]

me cus i hate how fast my eyes fill with tears when i’m hurt or angry.

[XENI @viperelitex]

2 hours of cooking, to eat in 10 minutes, and now I have to wash everything

[Alex @Alextrxm]

j'ai envie de commander des trucs mais j'ai pas envie que l'argent soit débité de mon compte

[⋆ @lowkeyalbert]

The craziest thing about being an adult is that you can go through the most traumatic night of your life and still have to go to work the next day.

[Sandra @Lexou_27]

😭😭😭😭

[ALMA ICE ❄️⚜️ @alma_ice]

Je vous recommande vivement un partenaire collant et amoureux. La vie est trop courte, pour être avec quelqu'un qui agit comme si montrer de l'amour était une corvée.

[Sandra @Lexou_27]

Même si tout va mal, du moment que j’arrive à avoir 15 min dans la journée pour lire un peu, ça me va.

[BЯK 👁️ @erickeuuh]

Vous pensez que les papas qui ne s’en sortent pas jusqu’à 50 ans, c’est parce qu’ils sont paresseux ?
Ne regardez pas internet pour penser que vous serez tous milliardaires. La vie ment même

[• @yducknow]

When you realize everything is so expensive and still God hasn’t let you you go hungry, homeless or empty

[𝓐𝔂𝓪 💗🌸 @AyaSansFiltre]

Normalisez le fait de vous retirer des endroits où vous ressentez de mauvaises ondes, une énergie négative ou des magouilles sournoises.

[NANGALLY🧚🏿‍♀️🤍 @yamadoo11]

Tellement bizarre d’avoir 28 ans et d’avoir l’impression d’en avoir 21…
Jusqu’à ce que tu parles à quelqu’un qui a vraiment 21 ans, et là t’as l’impression d’en avoir 45.