One of the strongest signs of intelligence is the ability to consider another person's perspective without becoming defensive. Curiosity reveals a sharp mind. It shows who is committed to understanding rather than winning.
And eventually, you reach that calm space where you no longer chase, complain, or expect. You simply. live, accept, and smile through Whatever life brings.
people will use the worst moment of your life to discredit every good thing you’ve ever shown them. apparently your kindness is fake but your anger is the real you.
The ability to disconnect from a person silently & just know quietly within yourself that it will never be that again, is one of those evolved places of self respect you’ll ever get to. And I want to explain, bc you’ll think someone’s just being avoidant.
as my final act of love, i’ll give you the silence you’ve been asking for. i won’t reach out. i won’t send those late-night texts when my chest feels heavy. i’ll swallow everything i’m dying to say and let you live like i was never there. if my absence is what brings you peace, then i’ll just disappear. i’ll stop waiting for replies that were never coming. i’ll stop hoping you’ll notice. and when it gets quiet, i’ll still be here. just not for you
Sometimes people don't see the harm in their behavior because their circle normalizes it. They think they're right just because no one is holding them accountable.
one thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is someone who acts like cause and effect don’t exist. yes, your actions caused this outcome, so why are you standing there shocked and playing the victim.
I don't believe in revenge but I do believe if you entered my life with bad intentions & tried to take advantage of my kindness in any way shape or form, you will eventually reap what you attempted to sow.
all I want in this life is to be treated like the kind, sensitive woman that I am. with consideration and intention at every decision when someone deals with me.