Sometimes you gotta put your feelings to the side and look at how somebody actually treats you. You can care about them all day, but that doesn’t change the lack of effort, inconsistency, or how many times they make you feel like you don’t matter. I learned to stop letting my feelings make excuses for somebody else’s actions. How you treat me tells me exactly how much you actually care about me.
Ngl after a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn't do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth... just basking in your toxicity huh?
Everybody wants a good woman until that woman puts pressure on you. You can’t half way treat a woman right & not expect her to address the issue. At the end of the day it’s hard to find someone that’s always there, always available & don’t ask for nothing but simple respect & communication. Most of the time she will come through for you before your friends & homeboys do. Don’t miss out on a blessing just because she may be a little difficult. But 9 times out of 10 if she’s difficult it’s cause she’s loyal💯🎯‼️
I realized people never loved me for me. It was just the way I showed up for them, the way I held them down & had their back, the way I came through when everyone else didn't, the way I was always the stable one, the way my mindset stimulated theirs, the way I looked pass their flaws and wanted the best for them, the way I was loyal no matter what. I'm this person because l've always wanted a person like me in my life, this goes for family, friends, relationships.
I think every woman hits that season where she’s not angry anymore, just aware. You see people clearly. You move differently. You don’t explain.. you just shift. That’s maturity mixed with grace.
I don't believe in being fumbled. If a person did something to lose me it's because they didn't want me. It was intentional. Cause you don't mistreat what you want to keep around. It's that simple.
Procrastination fades the moment you see through its illusion. There is no “later.” There is only now. When you act in the now, you touch the flow of life itself. Begin, even with the smallest step, and you will discover movement reveals truths that thought alone can never reach.