Normalize saying things like " Hey I really like you, but I'm healing right now and I am not in the best position to share myself with someone else!". Make it OK to be completely transparent about where you are in the moment. Allow people to meet you where you're at IF they +
Girl you study, you work, you are responsible, you dress well, you put
yourself together every morning, you manage your money, you are
educated & respectful, you are loyal, you have vision and plans for the future, who doesn't value that, doesn't deserve you.