You're scared to spend 2 years learning a new skill at 28, because by the time you're done, you'll be 30.
Whether you learn the skill or not you'll still be 30 in two years.
Time is extremely valuable.
normalize giving up on people. no more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. accept them as they are and reject them. If they wanted to appreciate you, they would’ve already.
i genuinely do not believe people treat you how they feel about you. i believe they treat you based on the state of mind they’re in. some people unintentionally hurt you because they are at war with themselves suffering, and suffering with things that has nothing to do with you.