you need to learn to stay away from people who make you mean, crazy or reactive. that's not you or who you want to be. so if they bring that out of you, they've got to go
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.
You cannot spend years breaking a child's spirit and then expect a few words in adulthood to repair what took years to destroy. You cannot teach a child to fear your footsteps, your voice, your moods, and your anger, then expect them to see you as a source of comfort later in life
I'm at a point in my life where I pray to keep meeting the right people. People who genuinely want the best for me, hold me in high regard, and add peace to my life.
You know you’ve grown when you stop chasing people who can’t even give you basic respect. No more forcing it. No more blaming yourself. No more waiting for them to change.
“When I was your age, I survived a pandemic and didn’t leave my house for two years. You will be okay if you stay in tonight.”
Finally, we have a line to use for future kids 😭😭😭
i pray everyday that people who secretly don’t fuck with me or don’t want to see me win get exposed & may the exposure be so clear that they have no choice but to get the fuck out my face immediately.
Unpopular opinion: Your child's name isn't the place to be creative. They'll have to explain, spell, and pronounce it for the rest of their life. Please be more intentional.
I honestly hatė how people assume your life is easy just because you don’t burden others with your problems or talk about the challenges you’re dealing with.