being the “understanding” one is exhausting. you carry everyone’s trauma, everyone’s problems, everyone’s excuses. but when it’s your turn to fall apart, you do it alone. no one checks. no one asks.
IN ORDER TO BE IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP YOU GOTTA TALK ABOUT THE THINGS THAT BOTHER YOU... EVEN IF YOU AGREE TO DISAGREE and i think y'all need to engrave this into your soul