No single benefit for men in marriage to be honest. Imagine providing , protecting, mowing the lawn, lifting the heavy items, repairing the generator, fixing the cars, working at the shore, planning dates, buying dress, paying for uber, spending all your earnings on a woman who just do nothing in return.
This is why I advise every man to marry their fellow man so that efforts can match and the other person will understand your sacrifice well because they are in that position too.
H1โ
- Took a break from my PhD.
- Started a new role where I am designing the future of agentic commerce
- Moved cities.
- Started 1000Reasons. All-time traffic hit ~400k
- Won the Nossrat Yassini Poetry Prize โ $10k
- The Years of Blood named a NYPL Best New Poetry Book of 2026
- Pushed the publication of my second book to 2029
- Published The Years of Blood in Nigeria (now sold out)
- Launched the Arole Agarawu Prize which awards $2k for Black and African Poets
- Left The Rumpus
- Building an agentic chatbot for the future of the Nigerian Civil tech
- Started building Portico, the OS for the opportunity layer of the world
- Launched CD Agency, your content design CLI
- Building a content design internal tooling system for my team at work
Super H1. Iโll go to bed tonight and try again when I wake up.
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