my toxic trait is that i donʼt give up on people easily. i would literally find every reason to understand your behavior, why you did what you did and seek the goodness in you a multiple times. i would really be giving you a lot of chances to redeem yourself before i surrender. so for me to finally give up, you have to make me hate you—loathe you to the point where i never wanna see you or have any means of contact with you ever again.
seeing people fall in love with themselves again after years of self-sabotaging is truly the most beautiful thing there is like yeah baby you really deserve it all and i'm so proud of you for starting to see that.