Betty Ross

Proud mommy #TeamNaira #TeamT3 10/25/12 8/03/14

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

T3’s first day of pre k, Naira’s 3rd day of kindergarten ❤️

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

My new normal 🥰

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

Shit already be against my better judgment

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

Some predicaments I will never get myself in again 🫢

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

Time to lock in 😬

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

I’ll never give more than i receive 🤷🏾‍♀️

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

Not the time for a bitch to be tryna compare apples to oranges

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

I’m working with an odd bunch today

[Pleasure Architect @11Architect11]

a lab in the netherlands scanned couples during orgasm and stumbled onto the strangest finding in sex research.

when women wore socks, the orgasm rate jumped from 50% to 80%

the researchers weren't studying socks. the scanning room was cold, some women complained, socks were offered. suddenly the success rate exploded and the team realized they'd accidentally run the most important experiment of the study

the mechanism showed up right on the brain scans. female orgasm requires the amygdala, the brain's fear and threat detection center, to power down. cold feet kept the threat system quietly online. warm feet let it switch off. that tiny bit of physical discomfort was enough to block the entire cascade

- her brain cannot climax and scan for problems at the same time. the systems are neurologically mutually exclusive
- socks are a stand-in for the real variable: comfort. temperature, privacy, no time pressure, no risk of interruption, nothing pinching or hurting. every small discomfort is a tax on the fear center
- this is why the same technique works one night and fails the next. the variable that changed wasn't your hands. it was her nervous system's threat level
- the environment is doing foreplay before you touch her. warm room, locked door, no rush, phone away

men study techniques for years and lose to a cold room. her nervous system decides if orgasm is possible before your skills ever enter the conversation. handle the amygdala first. the socks were never about socks

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

Naira is mute just like me

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

She talks loud af for no reason. Act just like her daddy mfs be hype 24/7

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

Our youngest daughter is so freaking loud she’s driving me nuts 😅

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

My daughters are so freaking pretty never seen faces so perfect 🥹

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

That’s that me espressooo

[Lauryn @1LaurynForeign]

Never think a bitch too ugly … 😂😂😂

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

Literally

[ukay @UKTHERULAA]

when somebody asks me to do something I’m already doing.

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

I want you to stop what your doing and do what I should do

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

I hate passive aggressive ppl bitch be direct stop the fake nice shit

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

Weaponized incompetence is a real thing

And I want no parts lol find another job 🤦🏾‍♀️

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

We have the same job why do I have to tell you to put up important documents? That’s insane honestly.

[Betty Ross @Love_June_]

I’ll never sit around directing another grown person