Ages 25-30 are crucial. You’re accepting that your friend group is getting smaller, your parents are getting older, you’re cleaning up the financial mess from your early 20s, managing your career and health. And somehow, you still need to find time to heal your mind.
Thats difference between black men and other races. Other races make it a PRIORITY to date within their culture/race. They don’t care what “connections” they have with others. It’s all about maintaining their culture. That’s their ultimate goal.
Cried so much this year, I really hope I’m much happier next year. It’s one of the things I’m praying for. A joy that stays. A joy that is not easily shaken.