Until you evolve, unlearn, relearn, and realize that women of this generation will not endure the bad treatments many of your mothers endured in the hands of your fathers, y’all will keep having failed marriages.
When a man lacks empathy, your pain becomes entertainment to him. He hurts you and then watches how you react, not to fix it, but to study you. He doesn't love, argue, or apologize; he calculates what breaks you and uses it against you.
If your partner doesn’t buy you gifts when they have small money, they won’t still buy it when they eventually have plenty.
Selfish people are selfish irrespective of their account balance.
@popitforpoppa Best feeling ever.
The only time I am able to 'forgive' and move on is after revenge!
Is it a character flaw...yes. Am I willing to change...no.
Narcissists always see themselves as victims, no matter how horribly they've treated someone else. To them the problem is not their lying, cheating, manipulation and abuse. The problem is that you started to notice those things.