@DominaElara This type of honesty is so important!
I don’t do many clips but the few I do, I have a sub who helps edit. Even this small amount of help saves me so much time.
A submissive is sent to the store with a shopping list that is perfectly innocent… but somehow feels deeply embarrassing to buy all at once.
What’s on the list?
Dommes: what would you include?
Subs: what combination would make you want to disappear at the checkout counter?
Vocabulary of the day: APPROBATORY
The quickest way to make praise meaningless is to expect it for baseline behavior.
Obedience is the starting point, not the achievement.
Chastity:
Chastity is a fun method of play and control but not all Mistresses require it or are into it at all.
If you are into it, great. If you are not at all, ask your Mistress if its important to her.
Mistresses are not a copy/paste situation.
Young people are always told what not to do. But what should you do?
Did you know that most public libraries have a Nintendo Switch to use? That parks show free movies at night? That there's a map of pickup basketball games?
https://t.co/Nb8rOAGO4T is a map of free and affordable things to do this summer that we made just for you.
Because public programs mean nothing if you don't know how to access them. 
Vocabulary of the day: INDELIBLE
Some experiences leave indelible marks long after the bruises fade.
A moment of surrender. A lesson learned under pressure. The realization that vulnerability and strength can coexist.
The body heals. The mind remembers.
Whip&Fork- Markette delivers trendy downtown energy without feeling overly manufactured.
Warm attentive service, a strong menu from a female chef, and standout dishes including the caviar hashbrowns and peri peri chicken.
Sadly missed the oxtail gratin because it sold out 😢
Whip&Fork - WangLang delivers a fun atmosphere w/ a stylish interior, warm attentive service, and Thai food w/ actual heat (luckily adjustable).
The Yum Naem Khao Tod was excellent, the Khao Soi Nuer Toon deeply comforting, & the mango sticky rice was worth saving room for.
Vocabulary of the day: Equanimity
Nothing tests your equanimity quite like accidentally dropping a CBT ball weight directly onto your own toe mid-scene and maintaining composure like nothing happened.
The show must go on.
Whip&Fork - Soba Ulala feels warm, homey, and quietly comforting. I ❤️ Japanese aesthetics.
Gentle service, a lovely sake selection, and excellent food across the board.
Highlights:
Ten Zaru chilled soba, fiddlehead & white asparagus, agedashi tofu, and assorted sashimi.
The online adult industry is in decline, especially compared to 2019-2023 sales volume numbers. Even if you don't want to admit it, you know it's true.
However.. do YOU know where the money is going now? Because it's not totally disappearing but it IS consolidating.