lwandss

📌 East London — Rhodes University Alumna👩🏽‍🎓|| IG: lwando.zinto

[lwandss @LwandoZinto]

Happy Bafana Friday to those who celebrate it 🙂‍↕️🥂
#BafanaFridays

[Bennedict @BennieSonamzi]

Omphile is still missing, please repost until she is found

[Mudzunga @Dzungie007]

Bro is South African ... Please push this Patriots

[Nkanyezi @NkanyeziKubheka]

Please help us find Thandolwethu Nkundla, last seen 2 July, taking taxis to Durban taxi rank. She's 16 years old. If you know anything, please contact her mother on 0812676152.

[tife⭐ @luvtifee]

bruh, i have this unwavering certainty that i am actually going to win in life.

[Destiny ✨ @destiny_ndlovu]

In honor of DJ Warras, who lost his life while trying to reclaim a hijacked building, I, Destiny Ndlovu, will be joining the march to stand against illegality.

[Dr. Koena Moabelo 🇿🇦 @RealKoenaza]

To remove the tears caused by Bafana Bafana, let’s use this as our tissue. Let’s make it go viral.

[Sonhei 🎀 @kiara7829]

Men's definition of a "simp" is often the exact kind of husband they'd want for their daughters.

[DrMusa @DrMusaMthombeni]

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[Black Coffee @RealBlackCoffee]

Well done gentlemen @BafanaBafana ,we are a very proud nation 🇿🇦

[Dr. Ose Etiobhio @osemagnum]

DEAR MEN, A VIRGIN GIRL MAY NOT BLEED ON THE FIRST DAY OF SEX.

NO. SHE DIDN'T LIE TO YOU.

READ. SHARE. REPOST.

Walk with me, Men.

The Hymen and Other Heavy Myths: A Small Tissue, a Large Silence

As a gynae doctor, let me speak gently, and slowly, and clearly about the hymen, because this small, shy fold of tissue has been forced to carry a suitcase far heavier than it deserves, and because too many hearts have cracked under the weight of a myth dressed up as biology.

First, let us be firm and tender at the same time: on no account should any girl or woman be subjected to a so-called “virginity test.” There is no medical test that can prove virginity. None. And any healthcare provider who claims to diagnose virginity by peering at the hymen is not practicing medicine, except in the narrow and painful situations of suspected child abuse or sexual assault where injury must be assessed. Virginity is not an anatomical finding, it is a social invention. The body does not keep receipts of first times. The body does not run a guest book of who entered and when.

Many men imagine the hymen as a stubborn door, sealed and waiting for a heroic knock. They picture what medicine calls an imperforate hymena hymen with no opening at all, and they imagine it as the standard design. But this is rare. Very rare. And when it happens, it announces itself loudly: the girl will not menstruate, blood will collect inside, pain will rise like an unanswered question, and she will need a simple surgical opening. This is not purity. This is pathology. This is not a moral story. It is a medical one.
In truth, the hymen is a democracy of shapes. Some are ring-shaped, and some look like lace, and some have a band across them, and some are wide and elastic from the beginning. These differences are as ordinary as different noses and different ears and different laughs. The hymen is not a gate that opens once and collapses in shame. It is a thin rim of tissue at the vaginal entrance, and nothing more dramatic than that.

And time, that patient sculptor, reshapes it. Sports and cycling and dancing and gymnastics and tampons and the simple choreography of daily life can stretch and thin the hymen without any sexual story attached. So when a woman has sex for the first time and there is no blood, it is not evidence of deceit. It is evidence of anatomy behaving like anatomy: flexible, responsive, alive.

Bleeding at first intercourse often comes from fear, from dryness, from hurriedness, from force, not from a mythical seal being broken like a red ribbon at a ceremony. With arousal, and patience, and consent, and lubrication, the vagina opens as it was designed to open, and sometimes there is no blood at all. A virgin may not bleed at her sexual debut, and this is not scandalous. It is medical. Men, please, do not turn blood into a lie detector. It is not one. Blood is a fluid, not a confession.

So let us pass on this knowledge gently, and stubbornly, and with love. To men, I say: trust science and unlearn folklore. To women, I say: your body is not on trial. Your anatomy does not owe anyone evidence. Your worth is not hidden in a fold of tissue. And your truth does not need to bleed in order to be believed.

[Rami Chuene @ramichuene]

No DNA, just RSA 🇿🇦❤️🇿🇦❤️🇿🇦❤️

[Rami Chuene @ramichuene]

I’m confused why people are happy that Bafana are going back home. Where else were they supposed to go? A South African team going back to South Africa, their home, where they are welcome and somehow that’s supposed to offend us? “Go bek home”? Kahleni bo…🇿🇦

[Bonang Matheba 👑 @Bonang]

Proud. Well done boys @BafanaBafana 🙏🏽

[Khaya Dlanga @khayadlanga]

We still made history. Don’t forget it. From here, we build.

[Linda Mtoba @Linda_Mtoba]

Bafana will win 2-1

[MamNcane @masarh_n]

“South Africa has qualified for the round of 16!!! 🇿🇦”

[Lesilo Rula @kay_mahapa]

Opened the World Cup and now opening the knockout stage. It’s not easy being a serious country but someone has to it 🇿🇦

[𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐮𝐧. @_ShaunKeyz]

I don’t think a lot of people understand how huge this match is. Bafana Bafana are playing in the FIFA World Cup knockout stages for the first time ever, okes 😭😭

[Tallglassofwine🍷 @Obywinni]

Naaa I want to be a very rich woman so bad, I want to buy the finest things in life, live in best place, travel round the world and be very happy 🥹

[MaLih @Lindy_nzabe]

The government wasn’t going to do anything about the illegal immigration if it wasn’t for March and March. I don’t think y’all realise how crazy that is.