Nobody is a Christian or a Muslim by choice in Africa. We were all Christians and Muslims by force. Foreign religion came into Africa through violence.
Misogyne and patriarchy is imbedded into every crevice of society, this is Part of the reason why men assign ownership of women to themselves 🤷🏾♀️ This is also present in religion,politics & education
A man's desire to become a father is always paid for by a woman with her body, her health, her career, and her freedom.
But when a woman expects a comfortable life, she is somehow shamed for wanting too much