How to be an emotionally safe person: Be curious. Encourage honesty and hard conversations instead of avoiding. Validate. Make others feel heard. Be nonjudgmental. Give space to be imperfect. Be consistent and dependable. Own when your actions caused hurt. Support without fixing.
Your family will straight up ruin your life if you let them decide anything for you. And what’s crazy is most of the time they think they’re helping you by doing it. Maybe on some level they love seeing you fail and prove yourself incapable of being your own person
He texts me whenever there’s some shit on the calendar to get my attention. Not saying nothing worth saying but “happy _____” lmao
Sir, I’m unavailable and so are you! Go
Be
Great 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Like come crack some good jokes on my shit rather than be a chronic disappointment lol
And why a man named Dwayne wanna find me so bad? 😩This man went out of his way to press me. I’m like “hey, I have this going on” and he was like cool, let’s still hang. Um lmao
Me: ok.
Dwayne disappoints (like Dwayne’s do 😒😂) why he think I’m finna let him piss me off? Lmao
Honestly, idc how racy the romance is or how rare the “love” feels, being someone’s mistress is not my vibes lol.
That’ll never get my attention beyond 90 days 🤣
I had two situations where my “friendships” crossed into danger zones and it yucked me out afterwards lmao
I met my husband and he was in a situation lol smh, we gotta require and desire better for ourselves.
So, now, I can’t require anything from anyone right now and that’s what’s best until I’m fully out of my situation. It’s useful for my growth and it gives me space for myself