It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity
I see a lot of bashing ma 15 pin salary here. Which Zed do y’all live in or do you just talk smack coz you and a few individuals you know are finally earning above that? It’s true 15 pin isn’t a lot of money in Zed today. But it’s also true that majority are earning way less. 🧵
You can either attach yourself to an outcome for the rest of your life or decide to make strong changes so that outcome never repeats itself. Habit formation gets you close, but willpower gets it done. You want it, right? So go get it. You vs You. The rest is noise.
In low trust environments, be polite and cordial, yet brief. Minimise attack surface: share little personal information. Ignore provocations and be unprovocative. Be unopinionated. Express uncertainty when pressed. Do not emote. Avoid attachments. You are there, but not present.
I found a very beautiful Bible verse.❤️
NAHUM 1 :9
There will come a time when that problem won’t bother you again, not because you forgot, but because God ended it once and for all.
As kids, rainy season meant worms everywhere. Now it’s mostly concrete roads, polluted soil, changing weather, and hungry birds doing cleanup before we even notice them.