unpopular opinion but sometimes fandoms lose people not because of the person they’re here for, but because the fan space gets too toxic and exhausting 😭
sometimes i feel like the way people talk about autism on this website obscures the fact that it mostly makes you very bad at recognizing when something you’re doing is annoying
“oh autism just makes people hate you for no reason” no autism makes you unable to recognize it when you’re doing something that’s making people hate u
@Ibangpip67 Ngl tik tok is single-handedly one of the worst places to discuss a sensitive topic like COCSA. All they do is invalidate your trauma with stupid ass reaction memes. They’ve become so desensitized that they think it’s an appropriate way to respond and it’s so infuriating.