I'm at the calmest point in my life rn. I don't react to much. I be staying in my own lane, getting my life together, vibing with myself, and learning to be there for me.
i don’t think your parents should meet your partner till you know this is the person you actually want to settle down with & get married to. i’m so big on that. i can’t bring just ANYBODY to my parents.
i used to believe that biting your tongue was a sign of maturity, but i realized that a true sign of growth and maturity is being able to vocalize your feelings in an appropriate manner even if you are angry. Holding your tongue just fosters unexpressed feelings that lead to issues in the future. Say what you gotta say!
compliments about your appearance are nice, but when somebody compliments you as a person, the way you think, your laugh, your personality, how genuine your heart is, that hits different...
Staying in a relationship JUST because you love someone is not worth it. Love IS NOT all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need.
Toxic people will focus on your boundaries instead of their disrespect in order to play the victim and make you the aggressive villain in their story. Remember, they are aggressive when they try to cross your boundaries, you are assertive when you enforce your boundaries.
when morgan wallen said, “you know you love to fight & i say shit i don’t mean but i’m still gonna wake up wanting you & me”
everyone who’s ever been in love felt that