@petulantbunni fit in as much as you have capacity for! otherwise you'll crash and burn trying to be present for everyone who wants a sliver of attention.
@theblaiirwitch they have to be 100% behind who you are as a person, anything else will result in pain. Even worse if they try to change who you are or what fundamentally makes you *you* as a person.
@milkyflowerrr not only that but how do they even justify it for themselves to get involved with someone else, the moral compass is so incredibly misaligned for some folks.