Socially smart people often won’t tell you to your face when they disagree with you because they can sense intuitively that you are too attached to the outcome of the interaction and that you couldn’t handle disagreement. So they will just agree with you… but then you might not hear from them again.
It’s easy to assume this is “fake” when really it’s just what intelligent people do to protect their energy. If you went around saying what you really thought all of the time you’d make way too many enemies, and get in way too many unproductive arguments (cortisol spikes = aging)
Of course the only way to make genuine connections is to say what you really think… but especially if you intend to be deeply involved in society, you must train your intuition to know who can take it.
Take more pictures
Always say I love you
Let things go
Learn the lesson. Don't repeat it.
Laugh often.
Be known for kindness
Ask them out.
Hold them close.
Embrace the small moments.
Pray
Love again.
Life is too short.
I’m not lowering the bar to protect someone else’s insecurities. The inner work I had to do cost too much to minimize. I move confidently, proudly, and unapologetically because I know who I am. My bar isn’t too high, some people just stopped reaching.✍️
Found this quote online
“Don’t let your empathy rob people of experiencing the consequences of their actions.”let them learn..
DAMN I NEEDED TO HEAR THAT..
I welcome my karma, good or bad I embrace it all. There are no skeletons in my closet. My only true goal in life is complete freedom in every way imaginable.
One thing about me, once I accept that we aren’t meant to be in each other’s lives anymore, I adjust FAST. I don’t keep checking if you miss me. I don’t wonder if you’re talking about me. Life keeps moving and so do I💯
When Miley Cyrus went on Rupaul’s Drag Race undercover as a guy… One of the contestants recognizing her & having fun with her. Both hilarious & sweet 😭
the baby didn't interrupt the performance. he marveled at it. then he decided it was worth finding a seat and continued to enjoy the show. that's one of the greatest compliments to their art this person might ever get.