The most expensive distraction in a woman's life is a confused man. He doesn’t just waste your time, he drains your energy, your peace, and your potential.
before i give up on people, i always make sure i really try, try and try!! you can’t continuously drain me, disappoint me, except me to continue showing up for you..
so nobody can act stupid when they don't hear from me anymore
Make dua for your partner in every salah. Even if you're not married yet, pray to Allah to give your future spouse good health, increase their Imaan, give them protection and bring you both together when the time is right إن شاء الله
I'm literally NOT the same girl I used to be. I'm a grown woman now. I try my best to avoid things that will take me back to the old me. I handle situations very differently now & most importantly I'm still working on myself. I thank god for growth 💖
just APOLOGIZE to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… all that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. people love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
I can’t stand a nigga that’s tit for tat like your main purpose as a man is to lead and be logical, so why tf are you mirroring me and things I do out of emotion? Who tf gone be the man if we both acting like bitches? 🧐
A girl on tiktok said "detachment is crazy because you'll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they're okay. you just stop showing it" and that's real life.
normalize giving up on people. no more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. accept them as they are and reject them. If they wanted to appreciate you, they would’ve already.
Sabr is not easy. It drains you mentally and physically. It leaves you on edge. It breaks you down, but you know what Allah said? “I am with the patient” Allah is with you. This should be enough to keep you going.
They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.