Men of this era face a strange predicament.
For generations, one of the deepest instincts of a man has been to provide and protect... Not because the people he loves are incapable or weak. But because he feels responsible for what happens to them.
He worries about his ageing parents/grandparents.. Worries about his wife. Worries about his children.
He loves his son and daughter equally... Wants both of them to be fearless, independent and free.
But when his young daughter asks, "Why can't I go alone just like my brother? Why can't I come back late? Why do you worry so much?" he faces a dilemma that is difficult to explain.
Because he knows something she will understand more fully with age.
The world as it ought to be and the world as it is are not always the same place.
We have built a world calling it civilisation... but we have not eliminated violence, predation, cruelty or exploitation.
WE ARE STILL ANIMALS.
So sometimes a father says no.
Sometimes he insists on accompanying her.
Sometimes he waits awake until she reaches home.
Sometimes he makes himself unpopular.
And today, such protectiveness can quickly be given labels. Controlling, conservative, patriarchal.
Certainly, control should never disguise itself as protection... A daughter is not property... A wife is not subordinate. Women are not intellectually weaker than men. And love does not confer ownership over another person's life.
But the opposite mistake is also possible.
Not every boundary is oppression... Not every precaution is patriarchy... And not every act of protection is control.
Perhaps civilisation will someday reach a point where fathers no longer have reason to worry when their daughters walk home alone at midnight.
WE ARE NOT THERE YET.
Until we are, men should never apologise for caring for his family.
And when circumstances genuinely demand it, have the strength to stand between the people you love and the dangers of an imperfect world.
And if the world calls that old fashioned?
Let it.
BE A MAN.
Accept the burden.
Accept the responsibility.
Accept that sometimes you will be misunderstood.
Don't be afraid to be unpopular.
Popularity is temporary... Duty is not.
कार्यवाही , कार्यवाही , कार्रवाही , कार्यवाही , कार्यवाही , कार्रवाही सुनकर थक गया हूं ,
ये बताओ जब तुमलोगों ने भरत तिवारी को बेवजह मार दिया तो इन दरिंदो का एनकाउंटर क्यों नहीं किया ??
क्या मुख्यमंत्री जी के जाति के लोग है इसलिए एनकाउंटर के बदले कार्यवाही कर रहे हो ???
जमुई घटना को अंजाम देने वाला चौधरी!
1.मिथिलेश कुमार (पिता- नरेश चौधरी)
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3.गोलू कुमार (पिता- सिकंदर चौधरी)
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पहले तो सभी आरोपियों का एनकाउंटर होना चाहिए। इतना भी नहीं कर सकते तो PR एजेंसी द्वारा रटाए-रटाए जुमले मत पढ़िए।
दूसरा-आप जमुई से आती हैं। कृपया उस नाबालिग लड़की और लड़के से उनके घर जाकर मिलिए और उन दोनों बच्चों को जो भी काउंसलिंग और मदद संभव हो, वह उपलब्ध कराइए। @_ShreyasiSingh
VIDEO | Patna: Bihar Minister and Jamui MLA Shreyasi Singh, on the incident involving a teenage couple being harassed by a group in Jamui, says, "The incident that took place in Jamui is certainly an incident that has brought shame to society. It happened on the evening of the 19th. No FIR had been registered by the administration. Taking cognisance of the pictures and videos that surfaced on social media, the administration registered an FIR and action is being taken promptly. Not just action, but three arrests have been made..."
(Full video available on PTI Videos - https://t.co/bIyFWTeOLF)
सबसे पहले घटना स्थल के नजदीक की पुलिस चौकी की पूरी टीम को बर्खास्त किया जाना चाहिए,जब बिहार पुलिस 112 के तहत हर जगह पर गश्ती करती है तो घटना के दिन शाम 6 बजे 112 की टीम कहां थी ?
आरोपित तीनों व्यक्ति कुशवाहा (OBC) जाति से हैं, जबकि पीड़ित ऊँची जाति की हिंदू राजपूत हैं।
@samrat4bjp ने कहा था कि बिहार में किसी की हिम्मत नहीं है कि कोई कोइरी-कुशवाहा के बेटे को हाथ भी लगा दे।
बाकी बिहार की झाँट @bihar_police , @JamuiPolice पर जितनी लानत भेजो, वह कम है।
No caste angle has been brought up yet in the assault video coming from Jamui, Bihar.
I am sure the victims must be UCs and the accused must be from shoshit-vanchit varg. Otherwise, it would already be making headlines as Dalit beti, Dalit beti, and all the politicians would have reached there within hours.
Name of 3 accused arrested so far
Mithlesh Kumar(Father Naresh Chaudhary)
Pramod Kumar(Father Pankaj Chaudhary)
Golu Kumar(Father Sikander Chaudhary)
All 3 belong to Kurmi-Kushwaha caste
Ab bol bsdk @CJP_for_India@abhijeet_dipke ... without facts check kuch bhi fake post karoge to Bihari gaand me danda daal denge . Bsdk Sala jahil Marathi pura bharat ke liye Cancer -virus ban chuke hain. 🤡
Jamaat students are distributing Qurans to all Hindu female students at Jagannath University.
This university, founded by a Hindu zamindar, has now turned into a nursery of jihadism and Islamists.