i can’t stand going out with people who act like every outing needs male sponsorship 😭 babe if we can’t afford it ourselves then maybe we shouldn’t be there yet.
I have a hot take ebandayo!
Men do not know how to handle a good woman. They do not deserve a submissive, soft woman who takes good care of them. They want that woman, yes, but they are not entirely ready for her because a woman like that requires you to be a man of honour and men are hardly ever that. So what these boys do is, they find a woman like that and assume that she is stupid and would never leave because she loves him too much (then they go bed hopping with their actual type - the woman who keeps him on his toes, the toxic rat from Alex). LOL.
What they don’t know is, a woman like that, the one you left at home, always loves herself more. She holds so much value and knows what she has to offer and will never settle for less! 👏 kudos to her for leaving. She is such a good woman and deserves amazing things!
I am so intentional about avoiding things that disturb my peace as an adult. 🤍 I realised that if my life is going to change i need to be intentional about it. Nothing is going to mysteriously change i need to enforce things to change by what i allow in my life.
Today, I realized how easy it is to lose yourself while trying to be loved by someone. You start waiting for their texts like it's proof you matter, pretending their distance doesn't hurt, and convincing yourself they'll change - all just to feel chosen. And for a moment, it hit me — love was never meant to make me smaller. It was meant to feel safe, like home, not like walking on eggshells hoping to be enough.