If you like don't work, don't make money as a woman, I will never allow my Son marry a woman who won't contribute financially, No alabodo will be allowed Insha Allah. May Allah spare our lives
A Man can be responsible without you overburdened Him. Ema pa kete kete.
Otun we osi, osi we otun
This generation of ours requires all hands to be on deck.
A woman MUST be able to support when necessary.
Enjoy your spouses resources but you must have disposable income to support when its required, that's what partnership entails.
There will be absolutely nothing wrong in you supporting with school fees if He asked, even He doesn't, Read the room, after all the kids belongs to both of you and Yes some women are paying it solo. We may not like it but it is what it is.
When you contribute, you earn bragging right amongst many others. Infact if He abuses or makes effort to do that you call His bluff
Contributing to building your home does not demean You, it actually add value to you. Think deeply about it, You were given a name at birth for a reason, Make that name proud. Yes Make God proud.
Babes go dey gas their friends that fuck married men and peoples bfs because the men dey bankroll them but make I cut off my guy because he cheated on his babe. Get off jhor 😭
Some of us did not grow up with irresponsible mothers. We have also lived abroad, so we know all these stuff you say about women's behaviour and marriage is hogwash.
Everybody knows what they are doing. "Wife, woman, marriage" are not Nigerian words.
If your partner is not pulling their weight financially in the marriage to join income and sort the family responsibility, they do not love you. If they are not looking to gifts you regularly and do things for you, their heart is not with you.
There is no such thing as "na so woman be." Love is not a Nigerian word and it is not a masculine trait. It is a human trait.
One of my talking stage no work that year because i tell the babe say I come from "2 income household" and na so my own go be.
End of Discussion. We no dey talk to each other again.
“Mesef no understand, God go provide” lmao 😂
A lot of you will die early and it won’t be anybody’s fault but your own.
Una go just calm down marry who no fit support una for house because you dey follow “Men are providers” tradition.
E no go better for tradition.
@gnf_ogo God bless my mom that woman contributes to everything in the house and still respects her husband the house they live in today they built it together that’s how marriage is supposed to be a partnership
You cannot tweet about your expectations in marriage & your preferred standards before Twitter married men hit you with "marry first".
We've seen the people you're marrying.
Out of 750K bill, what your married wife can add is prayer point?
Happy married life, Chief.
Lol bro, the prospect of going to jail for years if caught does not discourage criminals from committing crimes but somehow if we talk to them nicely, they will listen?