@Sith_Religions Real fights have rollback
You anticipate a trajectory or intent, realise you were wrong, quickly reassess. It feels like your opponent teleported.
@estrogenfox I started at 27, now 32 and feeling really good about my choices
I'd strongly recommend thinking of each thing you do as baby steps but doing as many positive things as you can from now
Mobility, nutrition, hobby. You have to kind of learn to be open and happy at 30 trans or not
@XENOGOTH The way people externalise their self hate as harassment of pretty girls is gross and it's misogyny
The suggestion that if you're (even remotely) pretty or passing you should accept it is also gross
This isn't what kindness looks like
You aren't calling out real narcissism
@myosotxx Good news and bad news: the proliferation of transitioning women will normalise an androgynous reception of boobs because the cis will do anything to degender us.
This might prove strictly positive for our brothers
@cisgenderhaver If you're bummed or offended and wouldn't be able to have a nice time and see how it goes, I guess don't
If you're not, I wouldn't go out of my way to find offence to take. Id treat it like a new first date
@polypocketknife I guess what I mean is we should uncompromisingly try to be the woman we want to be, which is different for everyone and may meaning leaning away from some things and into others, but when we compromise to make it work, we shouldn't harm our ability to be true later. Step forward
@polypocketknife I'm a trans woman too I'm not being dismissive every single thing about this is hard
But also we hold ourselves to such a high standard we lose sight of how normal it is for a woman to feel unsatisfied with herself
How mundane
We can hate ourselves extra but it's the same
@polypocketknife Women have body hair
You will have to figure out diet and exercise for your thirties no matter what
You won't always feel beautiful but you should always make decisions that align with your real feelings
No one ever compromised into happiness but taking steps tends to pay off
@oigevalt@mirandareinert It would be disrespectful to the neighbour to take time away from reconciliation to tell a date about it. I'd call it a good reason and catch up one more time for details later, then decide.
@poisonjr If you're dodging the question because you don't want to talk directly about how you reproduce or don't but that you, like the fish reproduce by appearing to spit aka perpetuate a self through communication and the little bits of understanding others take with them.. then, yeah