as a hyper independent girly (to a fault), i don't like asking for shit it makes me uncomfortable. that's why i like men who just DO. don't ask, just figure out what i need/want and DO IT.
I think men are becoming too content with being useless. You guys literally Can’t fix shit, can’t build, don’t pay for shit , struggling to plan dates . Like what are you really here for??
I spent 4 years with a man who didn’t care about me… then went back and wasted another 2 years off and on with the same man. And after that, I still tried to make it work for another year with someone who clearly didn’t care. But here’s the real lesson: it took almost 8 years for me to realize I didn’t care about myself. I accomplished nothing during that time because I was too busy chasing love. A lot of people think love will fix them or make them whole, but the truth is—if you don’t love yourself first, you’ll never feel complete